Theos-Talk Archives (April 2005 Message tt01330)

Cheers Iain-

And I'm returning your hug! See?! I knew we could do
it...sometimes when strong personalities meet there's
a period of turbulence...once that is weathered the
flying is always much smoother!

Looking forward to conversing on a higher level!

Love,

Niki


--- Iain <ibse03888@blueyonder.co.uk> wrote:

> 
> Niki,
> I've never been accused of righteousness, any one
> who knows me that is that 
> what you see is what you get,I have nothing to hide,
> I have nothing to fear, 
> and I have done nothing that I am ashamed off.Like
> everyone I make mistakes, 
> errors of judgement, bad decisions and stuff things
> up, who hasn't?but I'll 
> stand by what I've done or said.If you see something
> about me that I don't 
> want to see then tough.If something is wrong then I
> will call it as it is.If 
> that hurts someone's pride and vanity then ,so be
> it.
> As I have said before you have a lot to offer but
> being self indulgent 
> wallowing in self pity is wrong.Is this Tough Love
> ?then yes it is freely 
> given without condition By now you will feel angry
> and indignant and will 
> mouth off a few unpleasantries, fine get it out of
> your system, perhaps your 
> chuckle muscle will be back in action after that. I
> do not judge you but I 
> see someone looking for the easy way out,that the
> world owes you something, 
> Do you find it difficult to make friends, I get the
> impression that behind 
> the façade that you try to portray,their is a
> vulnerable, lonely person.who 
> is screaming out to be wanted and loved,there are
> many of us human beings in 
> the same predicament. to be wanted and loved are the
> basic emotions that we 
> share. I DO CARE FOR YOU AND I WILL STAND BY YOU
> but you will have to reach out and not bite me!
> My chuckles are written for every one to enjoy,it
> just so happens that when 
> someone writes something it is an instantaneous
> reply, What makes you 
> laugh?What do you enjoy doing?
> Ok. I'll give you the biggest hug ever,lots of love
> your devoted friend Iain
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Niki Durand" <nikidurand@yahoo.com>
> To: <theos-talk@yahoogroups.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:25 AM
> Subject: Re: Theos-World It's not like I forget,
> 
> 
> >
> > Hey Iain-
> >
> > Why can't I get the chuckles from you that you so
> > freely give to Christina?
> >
> > I need a hug, not righteousness.
> >
> > If I have your goat, it's because maybe I see
> > something about you you don't want to see about
> > yourself...
> >
> > Big deal, we all f**k up sometimes...every one...
> >
> > Lighten up sweetie! So you fell in my trap, let it
> > loose, life indeed is too precious to keep
> fighting!
> >
> > Now, can I get a chuckle from you?
> >
> > No traps now, promise! ;-)
> >
> > Niki, East of Java
> >
> >
> > --- Iain <ibse03888@blueyonder.co.uk> wrote:
> >
> >>
> >> Whose deluded? your the one thats setting traps,
> and
> >> showing paranoia,I
> >> would think that you do start conflicts I would
> even
> >> say that you enjoy
> >> conflict, and run away to some sucker who will
> >> listen to your sob-story.
> >> Does this go back too your childhood? Why do you
> >> think that you are a
> >> scapegoat?Is this the hard luck story we're about
> to
> >> get again? What 5
> >> million page treatise from the Theosophical
> Vaults
> >> are you refering too?
> >> There is none here, are you imagining things
> again?
> >> Take your time, I have all the time in the world.
> >> Cheers Iain
> >>
> >> ----- Original Message ----- 
> >> From: "Niki Durand" <nikidurand@yahoo.com>
> >> To: <theos-talk@yahoogroups.com>
> >> Sent: Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:44 PM
> >> Subject: Re: Theos-World It's not like I forget,
> >>
> >>
> >> >
> >> > Iain-
> >> >
> >> > Please stop this! You aren't sitting at my
> >> computer
> >> > reading post after post telling me I'm deluded,
> >> here
> >> > read this 5 million page treatise from the
> >> > Theosophical vaults! I never start conflicts, I
> >> only
> >> > respond to them. And thank you for giving me so
> >> much
> >> > power to say I've brought, single-handedly,
> strife
> >> to
> >> > the group. If you really need a scapegoat, ask
> me
> >> > first if I want to be one, don't elect me
> >> outright!
> >> >
> >> > Gee, what does a scapegoat wear to the market?
> >> Hmmm...
> >> >
> >> > By the way, you've just fallen into my trap!
> When
> >> I
> >> > posted what you just replied to, it was
> designed
> >> to
> >> > trap guilty hearts...and both you and Krishtar
> >> have
> >> > fallen in...anybody with a clean conscience
> >> wouldn't
> >> > even feel a need to respond...
> >> >
> >> > Now, shoo!
> >> >
> >> > Niki
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > --- Iain <ibse03888@blueyonder.co.uk> wrote:
> >> >
> >> >>
> >> >> Niki,A lot of people opened to you and in
> return
> >> >> you have given abuse and
> >> >> insult.You have brought disharmony here,Yes
> we
> >> all
> >> >> feel sorry for you, yes
> >> >> sorry, but it does look like that you are
> looking
> >> >> for aggravation, is this a
> >> >> frustration display? possibly or is it just
> >> >> attention seeking? very likely.
> >> >> What a hard life you have had, ..or have you?
> >> some
> >> >> of your statements seem
> >> >> to be a bit Mills and Boon ,Perhaps your
> jealous
> >> of
> >> >> others that can cope
> >> >> with what life has to offer. Many of the
> people
> >> have
> >> >> a harder life than you.
> >> >> Are you looking for an emotional crutch, a
> patsy
> >> >> that will fall in with your
> >> >> faultless ways so that you can carry on in
> >> whatever
> >> >> manner you think you
> >> >> should. Sorry kid, perhaps its time for you to
> >> grow
> >> >> up.
> >> >> cheers Iain
> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- 
> >> >> From: "Niki Durand" <nikidurand@yahoo.com>
> >> >> To: <theos-talk@yahoogroups.com>
> >> >> Sent: Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:00 PM
> >> >> Subject: Re: Theos-World It's not like I
> forget,
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Look Krishtar-
> >> >> >
> >> >> > We can make this our last post together,
> after
> >> >> your
> >> >> > obvious rebuttal, 'cos I'm onto you.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > I placed a post, in public, and asked
> nothing,
> 
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