Theos-Talk Archives (April 2005 Message tt01962)

Dear Niki

You are very welcome. And I am moved by the insight and beauty of what you 
wrote.

Love
Murray


At 13:17 1/05/2005, you wrote:
> .... Yes, we need to remember the love we shared with our
> mates, and to continue in a way that continues the "through-line", the 
> arc, of that
> love. This is the only path available to me; fading away or sliding into 
> oblivion would
> destroy the richness that we shared.
--- In theos-talk@yahoogroups.com, Murray Stentiford <opt-mas@s...> wrote:
> Dear Niki,
>
> If you are still on this list, let me add my voice to those who will say
> they care.
>
> I nursed my first wife through cancer a good many years ago till her death.
> But, sorrowful as that time was, I have to say that with the passage of
> years, there is a harvest of strength and wisdom that comes. Not the
> power-over-people kind of strength, and not the head-and-book learning kind
> of wisdom, but something that another grieving person will sense by being
> near you and gain solace from.
>
> Blessings on your journey
>
> Murray